HOW TO RESCUE RELATIONSHIP FROM UNHEALTHY TRAITS

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An unhealthy relationship is where trust, respect, and affection for each other are most under-rated in the priority list. It’s a point where people have forgot what love is? Still, they are staying together for the sake of love. Wondering how to rescue your relationship from toxic trait

An unhealthy relationship is where trust, respect, and affection for each other are most under-rated in the priority list. It’s a point where people have forgot what love is? Still, they are staying together for the sake of love.  

Every relationship faces these ‘rough patch’—it’s a long-term pattern of toxic behavior on one or both sides, which always recurs. So how do you transform these patterns in a relationship? Now, rescuing your relationship from toxic traits it’s a long way to go. I’m going to be brutally honest: most people end their relationship. Don’t lose hope if, “there’s a will, there’s a way”—there is a chance; the situation will change in the better way. You can work on your part, but if you can do the following three things, you can turn the wheel of fortune on your side:

  • Spot the problem and both partners are willing to work on it. It might sound easy but it is too hard to accept our mistake and admit our flaws. The problem can be anything, first, you need to recognize the issue which you are currently facing in the relationship like; the lack of trust, affection, and respect. Are willing to work on it? Agree on what needs to be fixed.Even if you both want things to get better, but chances are one person might experience like they aren’t trusted and so they think that’s what needs to be worked on. The other person, although, has no trust in the relationship because there is no affection. Or one person might not totally be honest about what the problem is—they don’t want to be the one who says they don’t trust the other person, for example. Whatever it is, you have to speak up about what’s keeping the relationship toxic.
  • Ready to change. Sounds obvious, however, if one of you isn’t prepared in order to make changes for the betterment of the relationship, well, that’s your solution. On the other hand, if both of you expressed your willingness to fix the things, you may begin this journey.
  • Healthy communication You can be on the same page about what is the real problem? but if one or both of you are playing the blame game on each other, well, it won’t work that way. It doesn’t matter who’s wrong or who's a fault it is? The goal is to improve bonding in a healthy direction. In short, both people have to prioritize the relationship to overcome their thirst to “win.”

Again, detoxing the relationship is not an easy task, but it's worth doing. You might also decide to break-up at some point, and that’s okay, but if you’re both willing to work on it, then it’s worth every second of your time, effort, and all awkward conversations and, the pain too.

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