In the race of existing, we forgot about living.

Humans have altered the true meaning of Relationships according to their own needs, Yes you read that right it is us who are responsible for the heartbreaks, for failed friendships, for failed marriages, for failed parenting and for turning the people into zombies because they have stopped feeling and even if they feel they are scared to express and if they want to express people won't listen.

There used to be a time when humans used to live their lives they were not merely passing and counting the years but they were living in the moments, the time when people had emotions when they used to love when relationships didn't come with expectations and need but they come with patience and love. But we have changed it all, we have changed the way we used to make relationships, for example, let's take this news of the decade "The Corona Virus" which had paused our lives, which literally stopped us from running and this is the only time that we were ever this close to our loved ones to our families, or else we never had time to have a decent conversation with them. This pandemic has made us realise how much we were missing in life just for the sake of making our futures better but now we have questions that anything can happen at any moment of life, it can take a drastic change even after we have planned for it our whole lives and this is what life is unpredictable, unstable and these are relationships which give us the strength to face this unpredictability of life to balance in this instability. 

Today people make relationships to fulfil their professional or personal needs, people have become mean, selfish and started considering relationships as a business. They forgot that it is an investment in which even if you didn't gain any profit in the short term you will definitely gain it in the long run. People have stopped fighting for relationships, being in a relationship with someone means that you will fight for them when the time will come you will stay with them in every hardship in every stage. People have also forgotten how to love because of the fear of falling or of getting rejected, love is supposed to be a feeling which takes away every fear which gives courage you to fight the world, it gives you the confidence to rise again. Today we ourselves imply limitations to it, we need to unlearn all these fears all these teachings which have taught us that love hurts, that being in love is painful, that it breaks your heart even if that is true then also we need to feel all this so that we can feel alive so that we can value our true relationships. Relationships are like a ladder which takes you to your goals but you have too put efforts to climb it and those efforts mean to trust, to love, to fight and to talk as these are the legs of the ladders the most important legs if they are stable so is your ladder and of course, you don't want your ladder to lose balance, Right?

Start investing in relationships because this pandemic has taught us that nothing is permanent,  nothing is fixed, life is unpredictable and this unpredictability is what makes it worth living for.

Stay safe.