In todays era where fake is cool and real is rare, finding right partner is one of the most difficult task to do.
A healthy relationship is when two people build connection based on:
- TRUST
- MUTUAL RESPECT
- HONESTY
- SUPPORT
- FAIRNESS
- SEPARATE IDENTITIES
- GOOD COMMUNICATION
- SENSE OF FONDNESS
Here are some tips to help you out for finding right partner.
1. Handle rejection gracefully
Every person you chase or you like is not perfect for you, so at some point everyone looking for love is going to have to deal with rejection- both as a person being rejected or person doing the rejection. Never take rejections personally,as if you do that you will not be able to come out of it and will never move forward to find the true ones who are actually meant to be yours. Don't dwell in it,but learn from it.
2. Build a genuine connection
Having a genuine connection is very important because two people be with each other co-operate with each other because they are connected to each other and they feel that connection. And if any relation may it be friendship or relatioship lacks genuine connectivity they don't go far ahead. To bring that connectivity,
- Focus your attention on what your partner is saying or doing, be mentally present when you are together.
- Be curious about knowing there thoughts, feelings, stories interests.
- Keep your fone or social life aside when you be with them
3. Keep things in perspective
Don't make your search for relationship the center of your life. Concentrate on your personal life activities also, it will give you a balanced life and make you seem more interesting person in front of others. Be honest about your flaws and shortcomings, because for a relationship to last you need a person who can accept you the way you are,not the way they want you to be.
4. Watch the relationship redflags
Red-flag behavior indicates that the relationship is not healthy or not going to lead to lasting love. Some common relationship red flags are:
- There's trouble making a commitment.
- Nonverbal communication is off.
- Controlling behaviour.
- No one on one time.
- Jealousy.
5. Deal with trust issues
Trust issues in relationship is like cancer in human body, as cancer slowly kills the person from inside, trust issues also kills the relationship. Yes trust doesn't builds overnight, so you both need to give time to each other. Trust issues gives rise to fear, fear of being betrayed, being led down by other one, which not at good for any relationship.
6. Nuture you budding relationship
Finding the right person is just the beginning of the journey, not the destination. In order to move from casual dating to a committed, loving relationship, you need to nurture that new connection. And to nuture it you need to,
- Communicate openly.
- Invest in it.
- Resolve conflicts.
- Be open to change.