There are times when you think the relationship is getting too bland or boring. This is not always a red flag to just end things between you and your partner. Understand that there will be times you will run out of things to talk about- AND THAT'S OKAY. Here is a list of few things that might help cheer up your relationships a little bit. 

Keep giving your partner handwritten notes. 

Trust me when I say this, most people treasure handmade gifts more than readymade market bought stuff. Take a colored card, draw some flowers, think of a song that reminds you of your partner, and write the lyrics that tell her how special he/she is. This will work wonders in getting their cheeks all red and shy. It is really effective and simple and CUTE!

Take them out on cheap dates, NOT FANCY RESTAURANTS!

As surprising as it may sound, but cheap thrills still has no match. Walking hand in hand in a garden, eating ice cream, and laughing your heart out are some of the things people DREAM about to be done with their partners. 

BOYS! Give her your clothes!

The joy we girls get on receiving her beloved's oversized tees and hoodies is unmatchable. There are no over-the-top expenses as such, but happiness is overwhelming. What is better than wearing something that is full of your partner's sweet memories, their smell, their gestures, and the fact that they are so invested in you that they let you borrow their belongings. ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE ♡

Never, I REPEAT, Never go to bed angry.

This is self-explanatory. Letting your partner go to bed angry will open her up to a world of unnecessary anxiety and overthinking. You don't know what troubles they already may be facing and what memories your words may trigger. 
''He isn't talking anymore, what if he has just stopped caring?''
''This is the exact same behavior my mom had to face when dad was leaving. Is he going to leave me?''
''She hasn't ever raised her voice on me. Is something bothering her?''

To avoid these, it is always better to make up and go to bed all cuddly. 

When you’re getting yourself something to eat or drink, get him something too. 

When I say it is the little things in life that provide the utmost joy, it really is the little things in life. Gestures like these will make him feel special and important and that he is being taken care of. Don't always make him feel as if he is the man of the relationship, but give him a shoulder to lean on from time to time. Stay by his side and comfort him when the times get rough. 

Although every relationship is different in its own way, there is always something that is common. And that, my friends, is effort. No matter how many years pass by besides your partner, show the same effort that you had shown when you wanted to win them over. That is the ultimate glue to a strong relationship!